July 1, 2010

1. To Cheat or Not to Cheat

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My husband and I have only been married for four years, and I'm already having problems with him. We are both very good looking, so we're always getting attention from other people.

Last weekend, I went out to a hot Hollywood club with some of my single and married girlfriends. Clubbing is not really my thang, but I needed to get out.

While we were there, a very sexy tall hip hop singer, who I cannot name for both our sakes, asked me to dance, and I said yes. I'd had only one Margarita, which is my favorite drink, but I was already becoming less inhibited.

While we danced, the DJ played Ciara's past hit, Get Up!







Then, Sexy asked me some questions, and really turned me on in the process, because he had to get close to my ear to be heard above the DJ's loud music.

I told him I was married, and he said he was, too, but of course, I already knew that. Then I told him he smelled delicious.

I thanked him for the dance and began to walk away--I had to get back to my girls. Suddenly, Sexy grabbed me around the waist from behind, and pressed his hard hot body up against my round ass, sending electric thrills up and down my spine. He really was delicious!

"Where you going?" he asked, with a wounded look in his eyes.

I knew he was used to getting what he wanted.

"If I give you my number, you promise to call?" he queried.

"I'll try," I said. He gave me his cell phone number and assured me that his wife had no access to it. I had to wonder about the sanctity of celebrity marriage. But he is simply too thrilling!

Should I call?

12 comments:

Ozie said...

If you have to ask if you should cheat or not cheat you are probably going to do it eventually anyway. Maybe marriage is not for you if you are bored already. You might need attention from more than one man to keep you happy over time. You say you don't like overt attention from men but it seems like you crave it.

Tori said...

I'm late with your stories so I'm starting at the very beginning. You gave it away with that song title. Unless you did that just to confuse us. but YES! I cant wait to continue reading further.

satara..!! said...

im just starting too from the beginning. girl whatever you decide to do make sure that its what you want. i say have your fun!

but dont have it at the expense of your husbands feelings. if you're bored. tell him! its his job to please you and vice versa.

but if you feel you made a mistake LEAVE. whats the purpose of getting married? to cheat?

Anonymous said...

cheat cheat cheat! lol Life is so short and it is absolute horrid frustration to spend it being completely miserable. Divorce should be just as easy as the wedding.

sssdawna said...

if your husband has cheated on you...i can understand your desire to get even, even if it's just to feel like you haven't let yourself down. but if he hasn't...i dunno! lol girl u r gettin into some trouble. trouble that i can't wait to read about : P

El-Divine said...

if you really want to listen to your followers then this is one of them talkin to you now. Dont do it. That is if you are woman enuf to say no when every nerve in ur body says "o lets do it!" but im saying, remember the woman u were at the altar vowing to love the man u married. be the difference you want to see in ur marriage.

Daniel said...

I'll say first that you need to think about it for some like two days, you'll know what to do then, i think I'm correct, and that's how it happen?

Second: great initiative, you prove that you're a woman from this time, in that place and for writing and all, i just got here and i kind of like it.

Great blog, i think I'm going to follow it. ;)

hair said...

Your blog is very interesting and I will definitely visit again>> Follow it

Whipped Cocoa said...

So glad I found this blog...I can so relate.

I never can say "yeah go cheat" but lets just say I understand but i swear I'm so scared of Karma...that bitch is already looking for me I'm sure.

Ent4Dummies said...

I'm not sure what repeating the phrase, "what he doesn't know won't hurt him", over and over will do for you but it's always worked for me. Readers can only offer useless commentary. Trust me! Thanks for being one of the brave ones!

Xay B. said...

Most def. like your blog. I'm going to have to follow. Keep up working this hard world and what it has to offers.

lifemanna said...

please dont.